Why Your Other Pets Should Be Present For Your Pet’s Goodbye
Should Other Pets Be Present for a Home Goodbye?
YES! One of the most common questions we get is whether other pets should be present when saying goodbye to their companion. Over the years, we’ve seen firsthand how animals grieve, and how being part of the process can help them understand and heal.
Why We Encourage It
Pets know more than we think – Pets sense when their friend is unwell, often before we do. Did you know, they can even detect cancer cells and changes in body chemistry long before symptoms appear. As their friend’s body starts to slow down, they usually know it’s coming. You might notice them staying close, following them around, sniffing or licking them more—or sometimes the opposite, respectfully giving them space. When they are given the chance to say goodbye, they seem to understand that their friend has passed, and that they are okay now.
It helps with grief – We’ve seen pets become confused when they don’t get the chance to say goodbye, sometimes searching for their friend. But when they are present or allowed to see their friend afterward, they often process the loss in a way that feels more peaceful. Many will sniff their friend, take a moment, and then shake off the stress—almost as if they’re releasing the weight of their worry. Some will simply get up and continue on with their day, reassured that their friend is finally at peace.
Each pet grieves differently – Some pets will want to stay close the entire time, while others may come and go. Some take just a moment to acknowledge their friend, while others need longer. We always encourage families to let their pets decide what feels right for them.
Things We’ve Learned
Some pets may not show an obvious reaction, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t processing the loss in their own way.
You don’t need to force them to interact or ‘understand’—just giving them the opportunity is enough.
A Gentle Goodbye for All
Our pets are family, and just like us, they feel loss. Giving them the chance to be present, whether during or after, can be a gift—one that helps them navigate life without their companion. We’ve seen the difference it makes, and we always encourage families to trust their pets to know what they need in those final moments.
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Talk to Dr Taylah and the team if you have any questions about this, or the gentle home goodbye process. You can have a home visit, email us, or phone consult.
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